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Get Married With Oversea Vietnamese Husbands: Happy Or Sorrows

For the girl by chance or fate is familiar and married overseas Vietnamese or alien, and foreign then guaranteed husband to dignity, in the eyes of people living in Vietnam, look at family of the girl with a jealous look, the desire for “marry Viet Kieu“, “families will be remembered.” As for the bride, it is a pride, and weave how dream will live affluence, can “cash cow” in a country where people are said to be “paradise”.

Viet Kieu MyAlso depend on the purpose of getting married overseas Vietnamese of every American is to have the opportunity to “sacrifice their lives” to help parents and brother in Vietnam, or there are people who really want to live and cultivate lift happiness our little family. However, for any purpose, too, when the legs and face of American life, there will be many things occur in life that mostly revolves around money.

The bride after reunited with her husband and began to face American life, the first feeling so down. Knowing that life everywhere has to make a new food, but in America the basic needs of life too. Open your eyes as bills, electricity, water, markets, milk for children, car and health insurance for each member of the family, if any, home insurance, annual land tax, then the damage to repair, and then gifts the wife husband family holidays. Life in Vietnam only to eat, wear, furnaces (if sharing her husband’s family, not have to worry much about this), and some where the coverage necessary to buy.

Life in American society where the idea is very simple but turned out to be “great”. First, driving, traffic rules to the street, where they sell something. The machinery in use was, to go to school for a few rudimentary English sentences American grocery talking to people, and then go astray to ask how … Want to ask how that was impossible, English not fluent, no expertise, no experience in the United States, the title is the only star that far too. Natural tiny brides find themselves in all aspects of knowledge and culture, just because I lost one of the “voices” (English). I was like a new born baby does not know anything about life, everything from the smallest in this life is to learn.

Want to quickly integrate real life to come to knit for her husband and who have “invisible” but you know what to do now? Me go to the markets of Vietnam to assist, please go to some restaurant washing dishes, or luck cleaning house cleaning bath room … to do things that were previously in Vietnam, I never thought of. Many people in Vietnam are working status, saying that “shouting fire”, or the rich lady who lives in velvet maid, comfortable spending money, want to buy a shirt to buy even spend in effect, poisons, want to buy a pair of shoes, jewelry, wallet not hesitate much. These people naturally to the U.S. position is lowered dramatically, want to buy a shirt have to wait until one sale off (discount) that have reduced several times dare buy. Thought life turned upside down, and they dare to accept their status and circumstances to go wash the dishes, clean the working limbs, and required to spend money to spend on glass?

And suddenly frightened when he saw the U.S. economic downturn, many people are unemployed, and did not know when new jobs. In Vietnam, there “sa hole transport” I cook a pot of sticky rice, bread or pushing a car or petty trading in the market for something to survive, and in the U.S. This is not trading style be.

Many expenses are required to have in American life, which is her husband, because his new wife to the United States do not know anything about American life, it takes time to settle in, if that child is wife to the kids and the burden fell on the husband. Therefore the husband should thoroughly calculate the money (because it can not joke with American life), because of the fixed salary expenses arising out of many, and to save a little room itself being unemployed What will happen to the wife and children. Knowing that there are government subsidies, but only for a while, and it is only temporary subsidies to survive, but about the future, homes are at risk the bank last, must have money to hold to time or time range.

Of course for those who live to create happiness for my little family, they agreed to do the manual work, to remove pride ourselves falling over themselves to life from the lowest employment normally. Because after all, where there’s nothing to be ashamed of, his level to where I work at a school and then slowly striving for life “up country”, occupation also honest, I did not do job Where illegal to be ashamed of. Long after work to go home for my family, my wife and children are food, shelter, economic burden sharing with her husband contract or it is happiness, and believes that “the wife the husband of the South China Sea also need “.

Besides so down about life in American society, there is the bride so down about her husband. There are a number of overseas Vietnamese in Vietnam “Explosion” equally, she went shopping, travel, as artist impressions should spend money like water (but where one understands that money when they want it in the U.S.). “Explosion” is an engineer, have the status, high-paying jobs in the U.S., America is paradise. For this reason the girls in Vietnam as misconceptions about heaven in the United States. When the bride entered the United States then turned back, paradise dream shattered. I have seen many brides “suck up on a sweet” and dared not confide to anyone, because to come My husband does not see that the place is a rented room is separated from the parking garage of the owner , where engineers do not know but just know that my husband is mowing the lawn, wealth, wealth also did not see that one in the bank debt.

Here I want to emphasize the sincerity of love and marriage. I have no opinion is contemptible, the status of high or low, rich or poor. But precisely because the artist impressions and the “explosion” of this guy overseas Vietnamese contributed to the collapse of happiness. You’re afraid to tell the true circumstances of his life in America, the girl will give up I did not dare take because of their poverty? You want to choose a tender wives, “party chief virtue” but you choose the girls living pragmatic way. Since you are so “broke” so the girls will love you girls live gratitude because they are not taken seriously rich and poor, where is heaven, sometimes the “explosion” of you makes them uncomfortable and not for you.

I have a friend, through a matchmaker she in Vietnam. He considered eyes and try her heart, very simple my friend. He proved to be a very generous For “sop”, leading the girl to eat in restaurants, leading into the shop selling expensive brands. But once my friends, because this girl straight from the bud is no luxury of eating places, like on popular place, is that expensive brands are not normal for people who like her. In the time we are together and after getting married wait paperwork guarantee she never ask for or mention smart as you must send money for me or my family with what Bay.

And I also have another friend, also through matchmaking familiar with the Vietnamese girl. He is, when his familiar frankly just workers, living wage, to be frugal, do not have much money, short, straight talk and honest circumstances. So you have two girls scare poor declined because he or she also pretended to accept to get to the U.S. (but you know). After this her 5th are who he wants to marry.

Then the bride was gradually awakened to the “golden dream” and to adapt gradually to the pressure of American life. Take the time to go to work, make money no matter what profession as long as honesty, to or low, must be done, to nurture his family. And she still did not wake dreams, adultery, and look forward to his socks off, but in that in America no one to receive a stable job, no education and more crime her husband, they are not stupid pick a “debt”.

And also you get wealthier husband, “food to” a little, or until “fully fledged” the suitability enjoy, familiar Joneses, the pragmatic lifestyle turned for and instinctively they began “flipping loose” with her husband split their sweet share bùi with. The chorus divorce, division of assets and the husband away almost empty-handed and her husband have to sing the song “I was wrong to put you into this.” And these girls sometimes fall into the trap of the hunting of man hunting girls married off, seducing they divorced and together enjoy a fortune, but when the money runs out the melt.

There is a walk you see each other that overseas Vietnamese back to Vietnam to travel to the countryside, but for his wife, because gentle country girl, the daughter of Saigon relaxed, pragmatic. But I think that place has good bad guys. When used overseas Vietnamese guy to get to know (through relatives, or there are ways to “explore” his friend) he get for love or money, or is “dream America”, is the main the groom knows best, and if the groom overseas Vietnamese as “explosive”, there will be time to sing, “I was wrong to put you into this.”

As brides choose to America to “sacrifice their lives” for my family, as you earn money in America and you “try” or “we” all for her family in Vietnam, the husband you will also “manually” with you. Couple living together is like a “pie-pay”, then at some point you will realize that living in this world not because of the food and there is a spirit and happiness. When you live to take advantage and bring happiness to others, how can you ask others to bring happiness to you.

I did not attack or oppose your signaling or helping his parents in Vietnam, but you are married, there must be mutual respect, assist in their ability or if there is more than his ability is also discussed with her husband. Because when you only thought is “married to an American to go is with the aim to help the family” that you intend to live taking advantage of someone else, if you want to help your case in Vietnam work and signaling also help parents be?

The word happy is I think, comes from the heart and his reason. Whether you live anywhere, any land in the world, who you are, rich or poor, the value of the phrase “happy family”, have the same value and form. Final paradise in the heart of each of us.

So, getting married with Viet Kieu My is bad or good? What do you think?

Overseas Marriages With Viet Kieu: Money Or Fate

Overseas marriages with Viet Kieu are increasingly popular in the last few years. Viet Kieu is defined as Vietnamese people who live in the West. There are thousands of Vietnamese Girls For Marriage with Vietkieu overseas and come to a new nation to live. Is it for money or fate? 

Vietnamese BridesFrom my own experience that I have been living in the United States of America (USA), I will say some of these marriages are for money and only a few are for fate. From www.vietdating.us dating site, there are thousands of Vietnamese girls who signed up online to look for a husband overseas. This is my dating service that I designed to help Vietnam women and men, girls or guys to make friends with each other. Every single day, there are at least 20 new profiles sign up at this site. More than 50% of these ads are from Viet Nam. I have to conclude that most of Vietnamese singles in Vietnam prefer to get married with Viet Kieu in USA, Australia, Italy, Canada and so on. 

Are Overseas Marriages For Money Or Fate?

I have to say that 90% of such marriages are because of money, not fate. Viet Kieu are attractive to Vietnam single men and women in Viet Nam. They live in developed nations so their view are modernized. Most of them have jobs to at least take care of themselves, not by using their parent’s money. Oh, I have to tell you one thing, that is, Viet Kieu works very hard to make money. This is the true. On the other hand, most of locally Vietnamese men and women can’t see the good future in Vietnam. They can’t find a stable job to work and make money. In the Western nations, there are more opportunities to work and make money. So, both female and male Vietkieu are attractive to local Vietnam Single men and women. Therefore, thousands of single Vietnamese men and women prefer to get married with Viet Kieu in the West.

Men in Vietnam Should Find Vietnamese Wife in the West

Single men in Vietnam should find Vietnamese wife in the West at Viet Singles Dating sites. As there are thousands of Viet Kieu men come to Viet Nam get married with these girls, the number of single Vietnamese girls are less than guys today. Also, young women get married with foreign men in Korea or Taiwan are increasing too. Unfortunately, this has become a phenomenon that Viet Kieu come to this country to get married with single women and bring them back to the Western countries to live, including United States of America (USA), Canada, Australia, and so on. In the next 20 or 30 years, single men in Vietnam have a hard time to find the wife over there.

Vietnamese BridesNowadays, experts predict that thousands of Vietnamese brides come to the West through marriage every year. In the next 30 years, there are probably millions of Viet girls come to these Western nations, which lead to the shortage of females in this country. Not only single Vietnam women get married with men in the West but they also get married with men in Asia like Korea, Taiwan, Japan, and so on. As a result, there will be hundreds of young Vietnamese men have a very difficult time to find a wife.

Why are Vietnamese women looking for foreign men?

The dream of riches is the main reason that they are following the modern style of getting married overseas. Today, there are Vietkieu men who are from Western nations, Asian territories, as well as native men as well. Especially, in the rural areas of Vietnam, thousands of countryside girls get married with Taiwanese and Korean men, which has been a phenomenon in the last few years. And, thousands of young Vietnam Single women get married with Viet Kieu men, which has been increasingly popular these days. I predict that there will be a big shortage of women in Viet Nam in the future.

Vietnamese girls dream to get married with men who are financially secured because they are so poor in Vietnam. They want to have a better future for themselves and their family. That’s right. Another reason is that most Viet Kieu come back to Vietnam and show off too much. They use the money they make in the West and spend in Viet Nam. That’s the reason that millions of women in this country get attracted. In fact, single women in Vietnam marry foreign husbands because of economic, social, cultural, lifestyle, and gender freedom.

Let’s get to the point. Currently, there is a shortage of number of single women in Viet Nam. Every year, there will be a larger shortage of single girls in this country.

What do you think about that in the next 30 years?

Single Vietnamese men will have a tough time to find a wife in this country. This is the truth. So, you should find a wife in the West in the future.

Why don’t you start searching for the Viet Kieu women in the Western nationals like US, Canada, Australia and so on now?

Let’s do that, guys. If single girls can find husbands overseas, then so can you. Don’t let the shortage of women keeps increasing in Vietnam. One day, your son(s) can’t find a local wife.

Please visit our free Vietnamese Dating Site to find single Viet women in the West, there are thousands of them waiting for you online. Good luck!

My Experience With a Viet Kieu My USA

Here is a true story about me with a Vietnamese American husband who I married about 7 years ago. My name is Thuy Nguyen. I got acquainted with a Viet Kieu at Vietnamese dating site. I got married with a Viet Kieu my 9 years ago and came to San Diego California for about 7 years. I was 24 years old by the time I married. First of all, I met him at my friend’s birthday party. His name is Tony Tran. He said he was a worker in a factory. He was 32 years old by that time, which is older than me for 8 years. We met and dated each other for about 2 weeks. He returned to USA and we chatted and talked almost every week.

Viet Kieu My

Viet Kieu My

After one year, he proposed to me on the phone that he wanted to marry me. We got married in Viet Nam. I came to USA the following year. There are some things that I never seen as I was in Vietnam. The first day my husband drove me home in his car, I felt like I was watching the movie. The big and wide highway has all beautiful cars. The weather is great. There are some birds flying and chasing each other to enjoy the luxury of this country, the United States of America. To tell you the truth, I am completely in love with this nation in that first day.

I stayed at my husband’s house for about one year. His parents are generally nice. Living in my husband’s house is almost the same as my house. I have freedom. It does not look like what I saw other Vietnamese brides who had to serve their husbands parents and siblings in Vietnam. My parents in law usually said that they don’t need me to serve them. They want me to just do whatever I feel like to do.

After about 8 months, I got a full time job as a stock clerk in a shopping store. I am happy because I can help my husband for some expense in the house. We bought a house and had one kid after two years. You may experience the difference when getting married with Viet Kieu’s husband. However, that’s what I experienced. Anyway, thanks for Vietnamese dating online that has helped me connected with my husband. Please share your experiences.

Thuy Nguyen.