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TIPS OF DATING A VIETNAMESE GIRL (FROM A VIETNAMESE WOMAN’S EXPERIENCE)

There are many non-Vietnamese guys who shared their experiences about how to date a Vietnamese girl. I have to go, “Really?”. Some of them have never been in Vietnam and some only traveled there for one or two times, do they really know well about Vietnamese girls in terms of dating and marriage? So, guys, here is the true tips of dating a Vietnamese girl from a native- Vietnamese woman’s experience.

Vietnam (UK:  (About this sound listen);[10] Vietnamese: Viet Nam (About this sound listen)), officially the Socialist Republic of Vietnam (Vietnamese: Cong hòa xã hoi chu nghia Viet Nam (About this sound listen)), is the easternmost country on the Indochina Peninsula in Southeast Asia. With an estimated 94.6 million inhabitants as of 2016, it is the world’s 14th-most-populous country, and the ninth-most-populous Asian country. Vietnam is bordered by China to the north, Laos to the northwest, Cambodia to the southwest, Thailand across the Gulf of Thailand to the southwest, and the Philippines, Malaysia and Indonesia across the South China Sea to the east and southeast.[d] Its capital city has been Hanoi since the reunification of North and South Vietnam in 1976, with Ho Chi Minh City as the most populous city.

Vietnamese girls are stunning. They are lovely by both physical appearance and personality. A Vietnamese woman is looking for a husband whom she can grow old with. She likes to find an honest man that take action, not by words. Vietnamese women are jealous because they love their husband. The more love they give is the more jealousy they have. You have to make her feel safe about your true love. Don’t try to cheat on her. She’s going to find out sooner or later. She will check your computer or phone at some point if she thinks you have an affair with another woman. Trust me on this, guys, she will do that.

If you are a Westerner who go to Vietnam to visit her the first time, then you should spend some time to study the culture a little bit. When you just get off the Tan Son Nhat airport, you will see millions of motorbikes on the road. When she takes you to some places, try to help her move her motorbikes because it is heavy.

Vietnamese woman

Vietnamese woman

Vietnamese ladies are tight to their family and relatives. You need to respect her parents and be high-scored by her siblings and relatives. So, being friendly with her family is very important to win her heart. Believe me, when you win her heart, you are the king of her life.

Vietnamese girls eat foods and usually dip with fish sauce or even sauce made of fermented fish. You can go with her and give it a try. You will have some experience about Vietnamese food. Remember, you are expected to pay for all meals, including breakfast, lunch and dinner in Vietnam. It’s culture. She is not using you, but it’s the way it works in Viet Nam. Guys are supposed to pay for meals when dating in a restaurant.

Looks matter to her. Vietnamese girls are very nice and shallow. You must take good care of your looks before going out with her. Flirting is an important part of dating process with a Viet girl, it relates to social interaction that She is proud of, in front of other people. She is proud from the public view. This is, I think, part of the culture too.

It doesn’t matter where she lives in Vietnam, in small cities or in big cities like Hanoi or Saigon (Ho Chi Minh city), you will treat her the good way, keep flirting her even though you marry her already. If you are an expat, then you might know more about Vietnamese culture than a tourist. However, no matter how much she has a crush on you, she won’t do the chasing. You have to do it at first. She can run for a short distance, but you must do the move. It’s Vietnamese culture. So, when you like her, make the initial chase.

Communication is the key to every successful relationship with a Vietnamese woman. Don’t try to guess what she says. If she has a lot of accent in speaking English that you don’t quite understand her thoroughly, then ask her to explain. Don’t assume you understand it clearly. You should ask her to get the correct response.

Don’t try to get her on the bed in the first date. Even though Vietnamese people share norms with the world and sex is part of the healthy relationship. However, trying to have sex with her on the first date may make you become a non-serious man. You need to build trust over time so it takes time to win her heart. If you know her from a Vietnamese dating site and have been chatting with her for a few months, then this is a different story. You and her know each other very well then you don’t have to wait to get her on bed in the first date you arrive in Vietnam to meet her.

I think the most important secret of dating Vietnamese women is for her to feel that you can protect and care for her. According to the Vietnam culture, the man is expected to be the provider for the family. If you are taking her to dinner, then you ask her to share the bills, it is wrong. So, don’t do that or she will go “is this guy from another planet?”.

Vietnamese girl

Vietnamese girl

In summary, I list some characteristics about Vietnamese women:

1. Vietnamese girls are independent

They work hard and can take care of themselves. During a marital journey, if you are laid off, then she can work to take care of the bills.

2. She wants you but she doesn’t need you

Whether or not you are strong on the bed, she will stay with you. When you win her heart, you marry her for life. However, if you cheat on her, then she won’t forgive you.

?3. Vietnamese women are family oriented

It’s part of the culture. She ties to her family and relatives.
When you marry her,
She will cook daily meals.
She will take good care of you when you are sick.
She will take good care of your kids.

4. Vietnamese ladies are submissive

5. Women in Vietnam have beautiful physical appearance

Vietnamese women are the most stunning women in the South East Asia. If you have seen other Asian women such as Thai, Cambodian, Filipina, Korean, Chinese, Japanese and etc., then you will conclude that Vietnamese women are prettiest.

6. Vietnamese girls are loyal and respectful
They consider marriage as a life-time commitment. They respect elders.

7. Vietnamese girlfriends take good care of their boyfriends

When dating her, you will be asked this kind of questions, “honey, are you thirsty? are you hungry? would you like something to eat or drink? and so on.

?Are you sleepy now? If not, then let’s talk about what Vietnamese like in a man.

1. She wants to have a serious relationship. Be honest. This is the utmost important thing she wants in a relationship.

2. She wants to live in a great country to have gender freedom, safety in everything. That’s why she chooses you, a Western man. It doesn’t matter you are Caucasian or White, Black, Asian, Hispanic and so on, you live in the West like Canada, Australia or the US, she will choose you.

3. She wants a good man who treats her with respects. Don’t ever treat her like crap, she will leave you. You need to remember this, she wants you but she doesn’t need you.

As you know, in Vietnam, about 50% of Vietnamese women are victims of domestic violence. If you treat her in a good manner, then you will be a king of her heart. She will do whatever you want.

?4. She wants a romantic guy, certainly. You should give her flowers and presents on special occasions.

5. She wants you to be a decision maker when choosing the place to date. You need to lead her during the dating process.

6. She doesn’t want to hear about your past girlfriends. Don’t be proud to show off your past relationships, you will loose the point.

7. Most Vietnamese women are Buddhism, so you don’t have to mention about your religion. She doesn’t care.

8. She doesn’t care much about your age. Most Vietnamese girls get married at the young age, from 18 to 26 years old. If you are 45 to 50 years old, then you can find a 26-year-old woman in Viet Nam at ease. In fact, most of single girls in Vietnam prefer to get married with an older man.

9. She doesn’t want to have sex on the first date. Don’t try to get her on bed until you win her heart.

10. She wants you to respect her parents and siblings.

Where to meet a Vietnamese girl?

Try to chat with her through a Vietnamese online dating service. Don’t just go to a club to meet her, it is harder. You should go sign up a personal profile at an Internet dating site. Contact with other girls you like, then chat with them first until she feels comfortable to meet you face to face. As you know, most Vietnamese women are shy at first, so you should try to chat with her online before meeting her in person.

?I am Linda. I am the admin of Vietdating.us. This website hook up single Vietnamese girls with Western men for marriage. Good luck and have fun!

Get Married With Oversea Vietnamese Husbands: Happy Or Sorrows

For the girl by chance or fate is familiar and married overseas Vietnamese or alien, and foreign then guaranteed husband to dignity, in the eyes of people living in Vietnam, look at family of the girl with a jealous look, the desire for “marry Viet Kieu“, “families will be remembered.” As for the bride, it is a pride, and weave how dream will live affluence, can “cash cow” in a country where people are said to be “paradise”.

Viet Kieu MyAlso depend on the purpose of getting married overseas Vietnamese of every American is to have the opportunity to “sacrifice their lives” to help parents and brother in Vietnam, or there are people who really want to live and cultivate lift happiness our little family. However, for any purpose, too, when the legs and face of American life, there will be many things occur in life that mostly revolves around money.

The bride after reunited with her husband and began to face American life, the first feeling so down. Knowing that life everywhere has to make a new food, but in America the basic needs of life too. Open your eyes as bills, electricity, water, markets, milk for children, car and health insurance for each member of the family, if any, home insurance, annual land tax, then the damage to repair, and then gifts the wife husband family holidays. Life in Vietnam only to eat, wear, furnaces (if sharing her husband’s family, not have to worry much about this), and some where the coverage necessary to buy.

Life in American society where the idea is very simple but turned out to be “great”. First, driving, traffic rules to the street, where they sell something. The machinery in use was, to go to school for a few rudimentary English sentences American grocery talking to people, and then go astray to ask how … Want to ask how that was impossible, English not fluent, no expertise, no experience in the United States, the title is the only star that far too. Natural tiny brides find themselves in all aspects of knowledge and culture, just because I lost one of the “voices” (English). I was like a new born baby does not know anything about life, everything from the smallest in this life is to learn.

Want to quickly integrate real life to come to knit for her husband and who have “invisible” but you know what to do now? Me go to the markets of Vietnam to assist, please go to some restaurant washing dishes, or luck cleaning house cleaning bath room … to do things that were previously in Vietnam, I never thought of. Many people in Vietnam are working status, saying that “shouting fire”, or the rich lady who lives in velvet maid, comfortable spending money, want to buy a shirt to buy even spend in effect, poisons, want to buy a pair of shoes, jewelry, wallet not hesitate much. These people naturally to the U.S. position is lowered dramatically, want to buy a shirt have to wait until one sale off (discount) that have reduced several times dare buy. Thought life turned upside down, and they dare to accept their status and circumstances to go wash the dishes, clean the working limbs, and required to spend money to spend on glass?

And suddenly frightened when he saw the U.S. economic downturn, many people are unemployed, and did not know when new jobs. In Vietnam, there “sa hole transport” I cook a pot of sticky rice, bread or pushing a car or petty trading in the market for something to survive, and in the U.S. This is not trading style be.

Many expenses are required to have in American life, which is her husband, because his new wife to the United States do not know anything about American life, it takes time to settle in, if that child is wife to the kids and the burden fell on the husband. Therefore the husband should thoroughly calculate the money (because it can not joke with American life), because of the fixed salary expenses arising out of many, and to save a little room itself being unemployed What will happen to the wife and children. Knowing that there are government subsidies, but only for a while, and it is only temporary subsidies to survive, but about the future, homes are at risk the bank last, must have money to hold to time or time range.

Of course for those who live to create happiness for my little family, they agreed to do the manual work, to remove pride ourselves falling over themselves to life from the lowest employment normally. Because after all, where there’s nothing to be ashamed of, his level to where I work at a school and then slowly striving for life “up country”, occupation also honest, I did not do job Where illegal to be ashamed of. Long after work to go home for my family, my wife and children are food, shelter, economic burden sharing with her husband contract or it is happiness, and believes that “the wife the husband of the South China Sea also need “.

Besides so down about life in American society, there is the bride so down about her husband. There are a number of overseas Vietnamese in Vietnam “Explosion” equally, she went shopping, travel, as artist impressions should spend money like water (but where one understands that money when they want it in the U.S.). “Explosion” is an engineer, have the status, high-paying jobs in the U.S., America is paradise. For this reason the girls in Vietnam as misconceptions about heaven in the United States. When the bride entered the United States then turned back, paradise dream shattered. I have seen many brides “suck up on a sweet” and dared not confide to anyone, because to come My husband does not see that the place is a rented room is separated from the parking garage of the owner , where engineers do not know but just know that my husband is mowing the lawn, wealth, wealth also did not see that one in the bank debt.

Here I want to emphasize the sincerity of love and marriage. I have no opinion is contemptible, the status of high or low, rich or poor. But precisely because the artist impressions and the “explosion” of this guy overseas Vietnamese contributed to the collapse of happiness. You’re afraid to tell the true circumstances of his life in America, the girl will give up I did not dare take because of their poverty? You want to choose a tender wives, “party chief virtue” but you choose the girls living pragmatic way. Since you are so “broke” so the girls will love you girls live gratitude because they are not taken seriously rich and poor, where is heaven, sometimes the “explosion” of you makes them uncomfortable and not for you.

I have a friend, through a matchmaker she in Vietnam. He considered eyes and try her heart, very simple my friend. He proved to be a very generous For “sop”, leading the girl to eat in restaurants, leading into the shop selling expensive brands. But once my friends, because this girl straight from the bud is no luxury of eating places, like on popular place, is that expensive brands are not normal for people who like her. In the time we are together and after getting married wait paperwork guarantee she never ask for or mention smart as you must send money for me or my family with what Bay.

And I also have another friend, also through matchmaking familiar with the Vietnamese girl. He is, when his familiar frankly just workers, living wage, to be frugal, do not have much money, short, straight talk and honest circumstances. So you have two girls scare poor declined because he or she also pretended to accept to get to the U.S. (but you know). After this her 5th are who he wants to marry.

Then the bride was gradually awakened to the “golden dream” and to adapt gradually to the pressure of American life. Take the time to go to work, make money no matter what profession as long as honesty, to or low, must be done, to nurture his family. And she still did not wake dreams, adultery, and look forward to his socks off, but in that in America no one to receive a stable job, no education and more crime her husband, they are not stupid pick a “debt”.

And also you get wealthier husband, “food to” a little, or until “fully fledged” the suitability enjoy, familiar Joneses, the pragmatic lifestyle turned for and instinctively they began “flipping loose” with her husband split their sweet share bùi with. The chorus divorce, division of assets and the husband away almost empty-handed and her husband have to sing the song “I was wrong to put you into this.” And these girls sometimes fall into the trap of the hunting of man hunting girls married off, seducing they divorced and together enjoy a fortune, but when the money runs out the melt.

There is a walk you see each other that overseas Vietnamese back to Vietnam to travel to the countryside, but for his wife, because gentle country girl, the daughter of Saigon relaxed, pragmatic. But I think that place has good bad guys. When used overseas Vietnamese guy to get to know (through relatives, or there are ways to “explore” his friend) he get for love or money, or is “dream America”, is the main the groom knows best, and if the groom overseas Vietnamese as “explosive”, there will be time to sing, “I was wrong to put you into this.”

As brides choose to America to “sacrifice their lives” for my family, as you earn money in America and you “try” or “we” all for her family in Vietnam, the husband you will also “manually” with you. Couple living together is like a “pie-pay”, then at some point you will realize that living in this world not because of the food and there is a spirit and happiness. When you live to take advantage and bring happiness to others, how can you ask others to bring happiness to you.

I did not attack or oppose your signaling or helping his parents in Vietnam, but you are married, there must be mutual respect, assist in their ability or if there is more than his ability is also discussed with her husband. Because when you only thought is “married to an American to go is with the aim to help the family” that you intend to live taking advantage of someone else, if you want to help your case in Vietnam work and signaling also help parents be?

The word happy is I think, comes from the heart and his reason. Whether you live anywhere, any land in the world, who you are, rich or poor, the value of the phrase “happy family”, have the same value and form. Final paradise in the heart of each of us.

So, getting married with Viet Kieu My is bad or good? What do you think?